In with the New

posted by StoryBroads on Sunday, December 30, 2007 . Post a comment for a chance to win free books!

Hope springs eternal in the human breast;
Man never Is, but always To be blest....
Alexander Pope

In other words, we’re never satisfied. Or, we deserve better than we’re getting. Good things lie ahead, around the next corner, over the next hill, in the Next Life. Whenever.

And never is Hope more alive than on the brink of a New Year. Humans are drawn to landmarks and turning points. There is magic in them, even if we are the ones putting it there.

Especially if we are the ones. Writers know the importance of proactive characters. However beaten up by fate, enemies, and the ills that flesh is heir to, they seize their destinies between their teeth and charge forward. So should we all.

And why not mark our intent by observing a tradition? If you don’t have one, make one. Or join with the people of another culture, if their ritual appeals to you.


To rid yourself of an unsatisfactory 2007, how about a bonenkai? That’s the Japanese “forget the year” celebration, where houses are cleaned, grudges let go, and misunderstandings cleared up.

Feeling lazy? Join the Spaniards and eat twelve grapes at midnight to secure twelve happy months in the year to come. Or have some black-eyed peas for good luck, as folks do in the American south. The Poles go for pickled herring. In Greece, a coin hidden in a St. Basil’s cake brings good fortune to the lucky one who receives it.

If you like your neighbors and wish them well, you might consider throwing dishes at their door. In Denmark, where people save old crockery for New Year’s flinging, a pile of broken dishes on your doorstep means you are popular.

Or, just relax in front of the teevee with a plate of nachos, watch the celebration in Times Square, and sing along with the traditional song. Whatever the tipple of your choice, let us each raise a glass to one another, we writers and readers, and in the words provided by Scottish poet Robert Burns:



tak a right guid-willie waugh (good-will drink) for auld lang syne (times gone by).




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7 Comments :

Blogger Darla said...

You know I learn so much from this blog...and I love every minute of it!

I especially like the throwing dishes at your door...makes you want to NOT be popular...the clean-up would be the pitts.

Hope does spring eternal, I don't know how many times thats all I've had to hold onto.

6:15 AM  
Blogger Maggie Shayne said...

I just want to head out at midnight and start throwing plates at the neighbor's houses. I'll also put cards in their mailboxes explaining the tradition. They'll probably find them about the time the police arrive to begin the investigation. LOL!

I'd like to create a new tradition. Maybe New Year's Eve is when I'll retire my fat gratitude candle and start on a new one. That could be my tradition. Blowing it out at midnight, and relighting a new one, or lighting the new from the flame of the old. Cool.

I like the midnight kiss idea. What better way to begin the new year, than with a kiss for luck?

Maggie

9:39 AM  
Blogger Ellen said...

My family use to eat black eyed peas for good luck, but since I lost my parents I kind of let the tradition go by the wayside. Maybe I'd better pick up the tradition again. I also am intrigued by the throwing of the dishes tradition. Do they have to be clean?????

11:00 AM  
Blogger Nathalie said...

This blog is very educative.

Happy New Year!

11:55 AM  
Blogger Lily said...

Love the PEACE sign... we need that!

Happy New Year !!!!!!!!

11:57 AM  
Blogger Estella said...

Great blog! Very educational.

1:30 PM  
Anonymous Ranurgis said...

There are definitely some interesting New Year's Eve customs around the world. Thanks for bringing some to our attention.

I think one of them is a pretty good idea: forget what went on in the past and sweet all that out of your mind and house. It's not easy to do and it's something I'm struggling with, but certainly forgiveness for past hurts and wrongs is something we need to practice. Not only churches but psychologists say that it's one of the keys to happiness.

7:39 PM  

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