Lynn's Law . . . (LynnK)
posted by Lynn Kerstan
on
Friday, February 15, 2008
. Post a comment for a chance to win free books!

. . . of Simultaneous Occurrences. Also known as LLOSO. Sounds like Loss-O, and Loss is the operative word.
Why is it that days, weeks, or months can stretch out like an arid desert with nothing important happening? With nothing special to look forward to?
And then, as if life were micro-managed by a dyspeptic imp, one day or week or month is suddenly crammed with conflicting obligations and pleasures? Last month alone, I got four delightful invitations. Three were for events on the same afternoon. The other was for that evening.
What to do? Can’t do them all. Whom to cut loose? My friends and family would be understanding. They’d let me off the hook. But I profoundly believe that we should save our best for the people we most care about.
Not to mention that when good things are on offer, I can’t help wanting to do what I most enjoy. What about meeeeeee?
You got it, Sherlock. That’s what’s happening right now. A treasured friend (Alicia Rasley) is in town, and I have never spent an unpleasurable moment in her company. The chance to brainstorm my current book-in-progress with a brilliant writer-teacher is not to be surrendered.
But! I’m singing in a fabulous concert tonight and have been tied up with rehearsals. No time for book brainstorming.
Happily, Alicia and StoryBroad fans Thea and John will be in the audience. It’s always more fun to be singing for people you know. But no partying afterward, because tomorrow I am presenting a writing workshop. Must be fresh. Perky. Coherent.
Good luck with that, Lynn.
And then, on Thursday next, Pat Potter is flying out to join us for an informal Writer Retreat. Another busy writer-friend, Carol Prescott (She of the Prestigious Day Job), can manage a weekend here. Wine and talk will flow like rivers. We might even get some work done.
But all too soon, the February of Many Pleasures will be over. Right now I’m giddy with delight, frustrated with lack of time to enjoy, and dreading the end of the music and the time spent with much-loved friends.
But there will be more music, that’s for sure. At long last, I will have another go at playing the guitar. Pat and I will plan our rambling drive up the California Coast to San Francisco for the RWA Conference in July. In fact, my calendar for the next few months is already filling up.
And naturally, LLOSO is kicking in. Nearly all the really juicy events are pushing themselves into conflict with one another. Too bad about that.
Then again, perhaps the long stretches of isolation are gifts from the Muse, large chunks of time meant for intensive writing. I know lots of writers who would be grateful for the quiet times looming all too soon in my future.
I should be grateful. And I am.
But I should also be disciplined. And I’m not.
So . . . what are you looking forward to in the next few weeks or months? And do you wisely use your empty times, or do you fritter them away?
Maybe we need to form a support group. Fritterers Anonymous!
Patricia Potter
Tara Taylor Quinn
Maggie Shayne
Anne Stuart
Suzanne Forster
Lynn Kerstan


















5 Comments :
Fritterers Anonymous! Sign me up. Your life sounds like mine, Lynn. It's feast or famine around here, and feasting time is rolling back around. I have a proposal to finish, some travel coming up, which I am greatly looking forward, except that the timing is really off because I'm in physical therapy for my knee, and it's starting to work and I'm going to have to interrupt for this trip!
Well, you know the drill. I also have a fabulous brainstorming group coming up later this month, and it's at MY house. So, lots of prep involved there.
My solution? I'm going to get very Zen about all of this. I've already started. All the things I was planning to do to fix up my place for the group? I've eliminated all of them, except the plant. I'm going to buy a new plant and that's it. For food, I'll serve a hearty winter vegetable soup and some good crusty French bread.
Otherwise, I'll miss out on all the fun! You have fun too--and think of it as embarrassment of riches. (smiles)
Suz
I'm looking forward to May 22nd! INDIANA JONES AND THE CRYSTAL SKULL (or whatever the exact title is!) I cannot wait.
Lynn--your law is the law of attraction, I think. During quiet periods we crave activity and fun, and what we desire, we attract, and then it comes, in droves, to the point where we begin to desire some down time, and so then that comes to us, in response to our asking, and then we get bored and desire chaos again, and it comes, and so on. =)
That's my thought on the matter, anyway.
Hugs!
Mag
Sign me up for Fritternymous (say that fast three times) too!
Like Maggie I'm looking forward to the new Indiana Jones movie. I'm also waiting for the True Blood series to start on HBO (hopefully soon since the writers strike is over)...and last but certainly not least, my trip to Oregon to see my Daughter in May!
Sign me up for Fritterers Anonymous!
Hey that sounds like a good thing to sign up for! Fritters Anonymous! Count me in!
I am looking forward to Spring! I am so sick and tired of Winter and all the snow and cold weather! Ugh!
Michele L.
Post a Comment
Links to this post :
Create a Link
<< Home